Much advice on how to get back with an ex often tells you to play ‘games’. For some reason, people think that playing head games is the best way to force him to get back to you. But this is NOT the best way to get back together. These are NOT the foundations for a healthy relationship. Instead, go about it the right way.
Firstly, keep in touch but not too often. If it’s his birthday, give him a call or send him a card. But don’t insist that he spends time with you. After all, he’s under no obligation.
You’ll also need to think about whether you’re going to date other people while you’re learning how to get back with an ex. Some people date others but this is often a big mistake. After all, if you’re really serious and really love him, why would you date anyone else? If you’re doing it to make him jealous then stop – these games rarely work.
However, if he does decide to date other girls then don’t be jealous. Easier said than done, but he did call things off and he is perfectly within his rights to see other people. Instead, think more about what they’re looking for in a girlfriend and what it is about you that you might have changed since you first got back together.
Use this time apart to work on yourself. Make sure you’re happy, you keep up regular exercise and that you see your friends regularly. You might even decide to change your style and get a haircut just to make you feel new and good about yourself. Feeling good in yourself is the number one way to let this show through and become more attractive to your ex.
As you can see, knowing how to get your ex back without the games isn’t rocket science, it just requires a little patience and work.
